16 August 2008

Boy to Girls, please respond

Lately, my friends from the opposite gender always sulk, discontented and grumble. That were the only synonyms that I could find in my dictionaries of the word: "merajuk". I am a bit odd and not that romeo type. I like to be more direct and more sincere. But what can I do? I do not want to be pretending as some one else. Be myself is my way [like Naruto Uzumaki, his ninja way]. Ga Ga Ga.

Every time they sulked, I do not know what to do. At last, I silent too and wait for them to start first afterwards. Am I selfish? I do not want to make wrong turn up if I messed things up. If anyone out there would share their opinions or experience, I am gladly to appreciate the thoughts. Thanks.

14 comments:

Hafizd said...

aikk...die pon type sulk up gak~ =p

Hafizd said...

aikk...die pon type sulk up gak~ =p

iLLy Ramudzan said...

sulking... i'm good at that... haha.. all women are, korg jgn nak tipooo..

anyway, why we do it:

1. terkecil hati
2. berasa hati
3. semua yg kaitan dgn hati lah...

mcm mane nak pujuk?

1. bergantung kepada tuan badan... hihi

HARITH said...

To hafizd:
"no no no..the specific her i dun really know yet, happy go lucky perhaps, amin :)"

"here is more on general issue thats why i put boy as referring to myself, and girls to the friends of of opposite gender, sound like discriminating people, but it was only to differentiate. Your thoughts is highly appreciated. Thank you."

HARITH said...

To Illy:
"Okkkkay, come on reasons in a general issues, thanks for the contribution. Perhaps i need to..hurm"

-thinking-

ibnulazim said...

maybe you have just slip things out of your mouth.. unintended? or too exited? and it just crushes their hearts? I always did so.. huhuhu..

maybe they want attention from you.. that can be both intended and unintended.. because they have a crush on you? wink2.. it rarely happen to me.. huhuhu

or perhaps it just a miscommunication that happened between you and them.. especially with unintended body language that you send.. crisis usually happens when the opposite side interprets the message differently with what you intended to mean. I might unintendedly send scary messages to others when I wake up in the morning.. huhuhu

blablabla.. (many more)

one of the ways to solve them..

identify what the problem really is. and tackle it wisely..

-peace-

HARITH said...

To ibnulazim:

Wahh..kamsia kamsia for the great thoughts and suggestions, i will look into it soon..Nevertheless did not expected that came out from you..so experienced~ ke ke ke

Warid @ Qohar said...

yeah... ibn lazim I really like your suggestion, perhaps it would be wise if you practice what you said too hahahaha. Well, don't worry too much harith, that is their nature... if not, men will be bored...

HARITH said...

gagaga..nice one warid..haah..why dun you try to start ur first step then ibnulazim~!..gagaga

halaa said...

huweek... this suddenly turn into men talk... btw, nice update.. huhu... i love to 'merajuk' too but only my girl friends. hehe... and usually it only last for a few seconds without 'memujuk'... hehe..

one good advice from me; jgn la merajuk. tak de guna pon.. kalau sakit hati etc yg berkaitan dgn hati, jgn dibalas. kerana kita tak layak utk membalas. yg layak membalas hanya Allah s.w.t. kerana setiap jiwa ini tetaplah hanya miliknya... wokess? ikhlaskan niat berkawan, insyaAllah diiringi berkahNYA...

HARITH said...

on behalf of halaa to that "person": gaga..ikhlaskan niat kite smua..nnt Allah permudahkan jalan kite nnt..jalan? ke mana? masing2 tentukan..gaga

HARITH said...

to halaa [personally]: thank you very much..sequel to this post and the opinions i have received, i will post another posting..the title yet in progress..but the discussion would be related to this topic..thanks for all your supports..anymore comments, sharing experiences and suggestions are welcome ^_^

AlexAlabasta said...

It depends...actually women are not that sensitive, only to certain someone she's extremely attached to she'll be a lil' sensitive. Us men too, tend to be that way, its just that we have our ego that keeps us from being sulky too much.

But sometimes mmglah bosan nak layan cengkadak2 nih, the best way play it like nuthin happens... its the best way to get out of the drama! Haha~

HARITH said...

gagaga..hurm..to be or not to be..~thanks for the contribution. But if we play like that, nuthing happens, and she lil sensitive, would it be get worse? She would see us like a dumb shitty not suit for her..oh man, i dun want that way..huhu